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How to make the R in NVR bigger.
Abstract
In this workshop we motivate participants to think about and experience resistance, with the goal of them forming a more positive attitude towards resistance and viewing it as a very important aspect of NVR.
Resistance in our perspective is not only saying NO to something or someone. Resistance can also be seen as a YES in favor of something or someone. For example, setting a boundary and say: “We will not accept you shouting at us”, is in fact a NO to the shouting. However, it also means a YES to more than one thing. It’s a YES to I know and I feel that I have the strength to resist, so I say YES to myself, and secondly I say YES to that other person by setting a boundary in order to strengthen the relationship. It’s a YES to the WE. Looking at it in this way can make it easier to resist.
We know from experience that many people who work with nonviolent resistance seem to be particularly attracted to the first two aspects of NVR and may even be a bit hesitant to use the R.
Erica Chenoweth has done a wonderful job collecting evidence to demonstrate why NVR is more effective than VR (violent resistance). She has gathered a lot of information on what it takes to apply NVR effectively. To be effective we need a plan, people, courage and a diversity of tools.
In this workshop we will therefor inform you on how to be a successful resister and to overcome any reluctance to use the R in NVR ? We are going show you how to make the R bigger.
Biography
Kirsten van Gink is a psychologist working in child and adolescent psychiatry since 2004 (Levvel, the Netherlands). She has been working with Non-violent Resistance (NVR) since 2007, adapting it for use on child and adolescent psychiatric wards and providing NVR training for staff members. In 2019 she completed her PhD research on the adaptation, implementation and effectiveness of NVR in residential settings for children and adolescent at the Department of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry at the VU University in Amsterdam.
Ron Ottenbros is a social psychiatric nurse, a social worker and a parent counselor working in child and adolescent mental health care since 1993. He has been working with Non-violent Resistance since 2007, adapting it for use on child and adolescent psychiatry wards. Since 2009 he is providing NVR trainings for staff members working in Youth (mental) health care and schools, in the Netherlands, Belgium, Australia and Bonaire (Caribbean). He works with families and leads parent groups focused on Nonviolent Resistance. He is a member of the Dutch Network NVR.